Empowered, Together: Liz & Matt’s Boudoir Experience
Did you know that a boudoir session can be healing for you & your partner?
Maybe you didn’t even know couples boudoir was a thing! I’m here to tell you that not only are they a thing but I absolutely ADORE photographing them in studio! I want everyone I come into contact with to feel confident and empowered and why should that stop with just us in studio?
Almost every single couple’s session I’ve had, the (primarily) male partner goes on to say “Wait…that’s it?! We’re not doing anything more?!” and turns out, they have the most fun with us!
I definitely invite you to keep reading because you’ll not only hear from my 2-time client Liz, but also her husband Matt and his perspective of the entire experience as well!
Liz said:
“Before the session, I felt we put too much emphasis on what was going around us vs our relationship.”
We were so busy getting caught up in everything else (work mainly), that we didn’t quite have the energy at the end of the day for us. Kinda seemed like a back burner thing almost. Like “I love you, but I’m too tired to function for anything right now” type of thing. I wanted to spice things up, make us a priority. Do something out of the comfort zone and do it together. Build up the bond again.
I am a previous client of Kait’s and absolutely LOVED my “me only” session.
I was added to her Facebook group a couple years ago and after my session, I couldn’t wait to do one with my hubs. I saw how she celebrated every body type the way the body CURRENTLY was. Every person is unique and beautiful the way they are now. And I absolutely loved how she didn’t change or edit photos. The photos are you, a reflection of your soul, your beauty, your fire. She didn’t strip anything away. I’m a bigger girl, and when she told me she doesn’t edit the body, I almost cried. I have a had a very rough childhood being a bigger girl. You know the stereotypical crap and societal pressure you can’t be happy in your body; you’re not beautiful if you don’t look a specific way. She burnt that shit to the ground. I couldn’t wait to do this with my husband.”
Matt said:
“Things were stagnant before the photoshoot.”
We were in a rut and too burnt out in general with work and everything to put focus where it mattered. Liz had a self shoot done and I liked them a lot. They were of my wife, not some edited person that kinda looked like her. It was her and the photos were pretty fucking amazing. When she told me about the couples session, I was hesitant but wanted photos of us together.
“Leading up to the shoot, I was nervous. Didn’t know what to expect. Still excited though.”
Liz said:
“It was my 2nd shoot and I had an idea what to expect. If anything, I was nervous for Matt.”
“He had never done anything like this ever, and wasn’t sure what to expect. I did my best to explain everything but there’s always a little anxiety when you’re out of your comfort zone.
The experience the day of was amazing. It was raw, intimate and soul bearing. To be able to have an amazing person take photos of you at your most intimate and vulnerable with your significant other is hard to explain. You open yourself up to not only your s.o., but Kait as well. And she is there for it; cheering and rooting for you both every single moment. It was a safe, welcoming, and loving environment. You feel so comfortable as the shoot goes on. We were cracking so many jokes towards the end. I felt it was a special moment with my husband I could share. And it spiced things up.”
Matt continued:
“I was nervous at first, but watching Liz get ready, I felt better and more excited about it.”
During the shoot, I felt at ease and comfortable with Kait. My favorite moment was choosing our photos together and using the riding crop. Definitely spiced things up after. We make being more mindful and spending more time together a priority. My favorite products are the photo album and my calendar.”
Liz added:
“Post session, we really focused on us as a priority, more intimacy and everything else could wait. We try not to get caught up in the craziness of the world. We delved more into our types of love languages and just overall happiness. We did before, don’t get me wrong, there was intimacy and happiness; but this is some other level shit. Like breaking down a wall you didn’t know existed. And it’s brought us closer; we are more attune to ourselves and each other. Favorite products are the photo album and metal wall art for sure. YUM!!!”
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